LOVE BLOSSOMS FOREVER

Life changes it’s way when you start feeling for someone. You are not you then, you start living for two lives. Love sounds very simple and sorted but it’s more than that, love can’t be defined in words or phrases but it’s an intense feeling when you fall for someone. Love needs both compromises and adjustments if one wants to last her/his relationship forever. Love is a bond of two pure souls who have a totally different bond from the rest of the world. Yes, love lasts forever only if it’s true love. Love blossoms like a rose flower wherever it goes.

True love nowadays is really very difficult to find, I mean either boy betrays the girl or vice-versa. We are living in a century where one is mostly loved on the basis of money and not loyalty. Is money that very powerful that it can overtake love but yes that’s the sad reality we face nowadays. In fact, love changes from day to day or month to month because a lot of options are available for the people. Importantly most of them are not ready to accept the person as he/she is but they want to change them according to themselves. Love is accepting your partner as he/she is. Love is standing with your soulmate no matter how worse the situation is. It’s not necessary to have restrictions because love is never about restrictions but it’s  all about trust between pure souls. Love is like flying high in the sky without tomorrow’s wings.

Everyone is not that much lucky to find the person they love as their life partner. Maybe that’s the signal of a perfect partner somewhere waiting for you or maybe he/she is not the right person to love for the rest of the life. Think positive in each and every situation because you never know what tomorrow is waiting for you. Sometimes one gets best friend and soul partner in the same person but again that relation needs compromises and adjustments if one wants to last their relationship forever. Fake promises are the major reason of separation, nowadays we call them breakups because at a small age teenagers define attractions as love but love and attractions are totally different feelings, though we can’t define love in words but in simple words love is an intense feeling of deep affection for someone and attraction is an action or power of evoking interest in or liking for someone. So both have completely different meanings where love is permanent if it’s true and loyal love and attractions are temporary and changes with time.

Loving someone is not wrong but loving the wrong person is absolutely wrong. Now, you might be thinking that how come you can know that a person you are loving is a right person or a wrong person but one comes to know with his/her sixth sense. Every time when you talk to the person you love, you’ll feel different from talking to the rest of the world. You’ll have a separate corner or a soft corner for that person. But again don’t love compromising your career because at the end career will give you self-independence. A lot of times youngsters drop their career due to their love life but every time they think dropping their career, they end up ruining their life. So, the main focus should be first on your career and then on your love life because in today’s world even if your partner would betray you, at least you’ll have a career to have a settled life. Rest, you’ll learn with time but make sure you learn before time.

Choose a partner who supports you like your parent, guides you like your teacher, fights with you like your friends, respects you like a queen and most importantly loves you like your life partner. Take your life decisions carefully and cheerfully but make sure you don’t regret it latter. No one can take you away from your love, your soul partner because you’re made for each other. Don’t trust blindly at the initial stage, take your time and spend time with each other and at the end walk by each other’s side whenever he/she needs you.

Love isn’t like scrolling ihe social networking sites but it’s like staring your love’s photograph for hours. You feel high above the clouds when you are in love. Despite many differences, difficulties, obstacles and problems; you stand with him/her, that’s love.

The day I met you,

Is the day I fell in love with you.

It was no more like falling

For my boyfriend but

Moreover it was like falling

For the soul partner of my life.

I started living in dreams

And a beautiful reality.

It feels like walking in the ocean,

And drowning for you and with you.

Last love,  Maybe the last one,

Maybe I won't be there tomorrow

But I want to hug you tightly

Right in the middle of the ocean

To make you realize the

Real essence of love.

My hearatbeat increases

When you hug me,

When you call me

Because I am in love with you.

You are my beautiful dream,

With all the nightmares apart.

Yes, you are my best friend,

With all the creatures apart.

Those late night calls made my days

More valuable to live in.

I hope we'll share this bond

For the rest of the life too.

©V.S

Rape:Kill The Rascals Of Our Society

She was too young to understand those things. She was wearing full covered clothes still she was raped. Our society blame our short skirts and backless tops as the reason of women’s rape. Here our society lacks because clothes can never be the reason of rape. It’s the dirty minds of people who think rape can satisfy them and then they forget the one who gave them the birth and taught them to walk is also a women. We need to change the mindset of such useless creatures rather than asking the girls and women of our society to wear full and covered clothes. They should be brutally killed by the victim without even thinking once, twice is a long run ;I guess. Don’t teach your daughter to bare the wrong practices because she is a women but teach her to take a step ahead for claiming their own rights. Don’t let her fear in the darkness just for the sake of the society, what the society would say but let her fly like a free bird because you’ll never know what she’s going through.
 It’s not just about the teenage boys or young males but it’s about the whole community of males. And due to the mindsets of such hilarious rapists,  the innocent girls  suffer. Sex education is actually very important for the generations to come otherwise our country would be unsafest country in future too. Girls should be respected and should be given equal opportunities as of boys. They should not be treated as a dowry because she is the one who made you something. Stop cursing her for what she is not born for. Respect every girl the way you respect your mother or sister and if you can’t do so better to die somewhere. 

After certain reports, according to the National Crime Records Bureau (NCRB) 2013 annual report, 24,923 rape cases were reported across India in 2012. Out of these, 24,470 were committed by someone known to the victim and from then cases have been increasing day by day, year by year. Why do men think that women are their property after marriage? Maybe because we lived in such a society who taught their daughters to get surpressed by their husbands but slowly and gradually trend Is changing with generations. Women can live their happy and a successful life even without males. They are better independent than males.
 Teach your daughters to say NO and be bold because they are the only one who can kill such rascals. Don’t stop them exploring the world but teach them to take few security measures until unless such rascals don’t die out of shame. 

On the other hand, sometimes even innocent boys too do suffer because of fake allegations made by women to win the case or attention, we don’t know. He was just seventeen years old and the reports came out with fake allegations made on him. The teen jumped from the balcony of his flat on 11^th floor of the building. He was a class 12 student from Gurugram and he committed suicide after he was accused of molesting a girl. The deceased, a resident of DLF Carlton Estate, jumped around 11 p.m. on Tuesday, 4/05/2020. He was Manav Singh a 17 yrs old student of The Heritage School, Gurugram. Few days ago, a girl posted a story talking about an event which took place around two years ago; when Manav was only 14-15 y/o. in this story she accused him of molestation and rape while claiming she has no proof of it. After her story got viral Manav received threat calls and messages and was harassed by the girl and her friends after which he tried to defend himself and also told his friends that he is innocent but he couldn't handle the constant threats and believed that his side of the story would not be heard. He was under tremendous pressure and had a panic attack and impulsively decided to commit suicide. Such girls too do exists who blame the boys and put fake allegations. Where’s the police now, now our society won’t be trolling for Manav’s justice just because she’s is the girl and it’s her choice. No, it’s not her choice, no girl has the right to be the reason of someone’s death. If we expect our boys to respect a girl then we except vice- versa as well. Never forget if you are hurting a girl then you have your sisters and mother at home and if you are hurting a boy then you have your father and brothers at home.

Think wisely before taking any step!

©V.S