Life gave me
everything I wanted to have in this life, although it gave me more than I
expected. We always wish for more and more which is a part of human nature but
one should be thankful to almighty for giving him/her whatever one have because
many don't have what you have and they actually beg for it. Comparing yourself
to others for what you don't have won't solve your problems or needs but it'll
create more snag in your life. Don't look at the ones who are rich or who have
luxurious cars, luxurious houses etc. but look at the ones who don't even
have a proper shelter to live under. Life is different to different people but
one should be satisfied with what he/she has.
This story is based on
a true real life incidence once a girl shared with me.
P.S: She wasn't known
to me.
There was a girl who
was forced to marry a guy when she was just 18, she did that because her parent
wanted to, though that was against her wish and it wasn't a happy marriage.
Then after few months of marriage the couple was travelling to the girl's house
and in between they met an accident where they both had no chance to come back
alive as the car fell into the deep hole. However, the husband managed to jump
from the car and came back without any surgeries but the girl was heavily
injured and went through a lot of surgeries. She was paralysed and
couldn't walk then. The main trauma she had was that she won't be able to give
a birth to a baby. Her husband didn't support her and married someone else when
he came to know that she was paralysed. Life was really very difficult for her
then but she somehow managed to come out of it. She learnt two things in life:
First, people changes with time, don't be too dependent on someone,
take your life decisions carefully: Second, Learn to overcome your fears.
Later, after serious recoveries she came back again to her normal life
but she couldn’t walk again. She learnt to overcome her fears and fight for
herself. She was divorced by her husband and later she adopted a baby girl
because she always wanted a girl child so that she'll never let her go
through what she went through because of her parent. It was their wrong
decision which forced her to take serious and crucial steps of her life going
against them.
One should not always
complain about what he/she is going through but one should be thankful to
almighty for what so ever he/she have. Life’ll always give you what you
actually need because there is no end to our deeds. Promise yourself to fight with each and every situation
cheerfully because you’ll never know what tomorrow is waiting for you.
Let's not break the
rules
To achieve success in
life,
But let's follow the
rules to
Succeed in life.
Don't be good to
everyone,
Be good to the ones
Who are worth of
goodness.
Respect comes when
You respect someone,
Don't respect someone
who
Don't respect in
return.
Karma exists
somewhere,
Don't completely
depend on karma
Take the revenge in a
positive way
And let the Karma
react to it's way.
Smile when people are
Expecting you to cry,
Laugh when people are
criticising you
Because maybe you are
above them
And they want you to
be below them.
Shine as if you are a
shinning star,
Don't fall for the
useless people
Drowning for the
stars.
Be the pure soul,
The one whom the world
admires.
Don't ever give up in
your life, no matter how bad the situation is. Keep walking towards your dream
and trust yourself: No one can pull you back untill unless you yourself don't
want to. Life is a journey of both ups and downs, face both of them cheerfully.
Today might not be a good day for you but tomorrow is waiting for you to be a
good day. Hardles and struggles are both very important part of life because
they teach you the real meaning to live a life. If something bad happened with
you, don't worry something good is
waiting for you. Everything happens for a good cause and maybe what happened
with you will be bringing the best out of it. If someone or something is
hurting you, take a step back and think
twice before taking a step forward the next time. Each day will be a new day
and a new chance to develop your skills. You'll fail at times, you'll fall at times but at the end you'll
achieve what you desired. Don't ever stop, keep going because it's your
journey: Journey to be what you wanted to. Each sunrise will be an another new
chance to change yourself and to live a better life. Be a person you once
wished to be. You yourself have to create the best you. Celebrate each and
every moment of life in a positive way.
So, stop
complaining and start appreciating.
